Lately I've heard so many people talk about decisions in their life that are really big - and really hard to make! They've been "sitting on the fence", so to speak. And sometimes they are being hard on themselves for doing it.
Well I have another take on that. If you aren't sure if you want to go left or right, why make the decision now? Wouldn't it be better to wait until you actually feel somewhat certain about which way to go? Makes sense to me!
So my suggestion is to go easy on yourself. Although "sitting on the fence" isn't the most comfortable place to be for us - or for the other people involved in our decision - it's probably the best move when you aren't sure which way to go.
So accept yourself as you are, and how you are showing up in your life. Be at peace with where you are. Allow yourself the time it takes to come to the right decision -and love yourself - even when you are "sitting on the fence".