Moving on is sometimes the most difficult thing to do. It seems at first that we can barely tolerate a situation or a change in our life. Then comes some forgiveness. Then acceptance and hopefully, eventually, unconditional love. If I don't follow that path then I'm not doing what I came here to do. How many times do I want to repeat a course, until I get it right? Letting go, moving on and accepting are really just "lifting off" of the whole thing, just lightly and easily, like a helicopter goes up. Only with this surrender can we truly heal, love, and move on.
It seems that every time something happens that is painful or that I resist, any parts of that situation that I don't fully "lift off" of and move on from, will just repeat themselves. Repeat until I get it. So, finally, I've decided to do my best and get it right. Let it all go and move on.